Some Tips For the Mother of the Bride
Monday, October 31st, 2011Know that today’s planning team isn’t automatically the bride and her mom. You may be part of a team that includes the groom’s parents, or the bride and groom will be doing the majority of the planning on their own. So don’t go into this with huge expectations, or have your feelings hurt that you won’t be in charge of the cake. Just look forward to meeting with the bride and groom to discuss how THEY’D like their team to work together.
Make a promise to yourself, as a parent, that you’ll keep the wishes of the bride and groom paramount. Since the wedding is such an important and emotional event, it’s easy to fall into a heightened state and want more of your ideas included. Know the difference between making suggestions and forcing your opinion.
Be ready with addresses and information when the bride and groom come to you about guest list or ideas to incorporate family traditions into their wedding. When you’re asked to do anything, get back to them right away and be diligent. (more…)









